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Episode 163

Are You a Spectator or a Supporter? When Success Reveals Character

July 30, 2026 · 11 min

Delroy speaks directly to something that weighs on a lot of creators: the years spent creating — sleepless nights, meal-less days, pushing through even on days you’re not feeling your best. And still, time after time, you can see people clicking on your content, some of them actually reading it — yet no one comments, good or bad. No one says “brother, sister, keep up the good work.”

There are times financial pressure hits, and you’re still creating even when you can barely pay the bills. You ask for support, and no one responds — yet they keep absorbing the content all the same, without ever stopping to think that maybe this brother or sister needs to be shown some love, whether that’s a simple thank you or a donation of some sort.

Delroy’s message: if something means anything to you, you have to reach out and let it be known. Creators get discouraged, and that one message — or even a small donation — can be the difference between a creator quitting and a creator pushing forward. We need support, not just spectators.

We have to do better as humans — showing love and support can make a world of difference to that author, blogger, podcaster, or anyone else pouring themselves into their work.

“We need support, not just spectators.”
Key Takeaways
  • Creating consistently takes a real toll — sleepless nights, financial strain, showing up even when you’re not at your best.
  • Views and clicks aren’t the same as support — silence from an audience can be its own kind of discouragement.
  • A simple comment, “keep up the good work,” or a small donation can mean more than people realize.
  • If content means something to you, say so — don’t just absorb it quietly.
  • We have to do better as humans — showing love and support can make a world of difference to any author, blogger, or podcaster.
  • The gap between a creator quitting and pushing forward is sometimes just one message or one act of support.
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